i learnt something important this week:

to be good to others and to be good to yourself.

it is necessary to be good to others as to survive in this world and of course things must come from your heart. of course please do things sincerly and not be it a facade. as for to be good to yourself? well, in the first place you have to be good to yourself in order to be good to others, after all, if you're not going to be good to yourself, how in the world are you going to stay alive to be good to others?

i feel it is always important to enjoy live and to help others along the way. of course just because you want to help others, don't become the emotional barcade where you actually become the emotional burden.

when i used to work, my boss told me that it is important to have a positive attitude towards work, well i believe it also important to have a positive attitude towards live. that way, we can have fun and at the same time be serious.

it is hard to say and hard to believe as problems continously come our way in this society. the deal is, how are we going to deal with them?

i can talk all the trash i want, and i can give all the morals and be thought the wisdom of knowledge but how many times does it actually impact us? the most important thing is: yourself. for in oursevles there are others.

this is my theory.
i also believe in a couple of things which are really positive. at times like this i feel like i'm a total optimist, but yet when all the sorrowful things come and the lonliness sinks in (although i don't know what happen but lately life has been great and i haven't felt all this and when i want to i just think of laughter) it feels as though the world has drawn up a map for me to just die in the hands and you really question what life is really about. also unfortunately for me, i become a total cynic which is of course bad for people around me.

perhaps that's why i'm typing this down. so that when the time comes, i can remember the positive things of life.

so, that's what a blog is supposed to be used for.

for once,
thanks blogger.